“My child will turn four in three months. Does that mean it is already time to start school?”

For expat parents, the Dutch education system can initially seem unusual. Children can start school at the age of four, often shortly after their birthday, without attending a separate preparatory year first.

That is indeed how the system works. In the Netherlands, most children start basisschool when they turn four. This is no longer childcare, but a real school environment with teachers, a daily schedule and a structured educational programme.

The good news is that teachers do not expect a four-year-old to be able to read or write. They focus on a different set of skills.Here are seven signs that can indicate whether a child is ready to start primary school.

How the Dutch Primary School System Works
Dutch primary schools are divided into eight year groups, known as groepen.Groep 1 and groep 2 are similar to kindergarten or the early years of primary education in many other countries. Children learn mainly through play, creative activities, language development and social interaction.

Formal reading, writing and mathematics usually begin in groep 3, when most children are around six years old.This means that a four-year-old does not need to know the alphabet or be able to count confidently before starting school. However, several practical, social and emotional skills can make the transition much easier.

7 Signs Your Child Is Ready for Basisschool

1. Independence with Basic Everyday Tasks
Your child can put on a coat, use a zip and take off their shoes without constant help.Teachers are available to support children, but they cannot help every child with every zip, button or pair of shoes during each break. It may sound like a small detail, but independence with basic tasks is one of the skills teachers mention most often.

2. The Ability to Listen and Follow Instructions
Your child can listen to a short instruction and carry it out.For example: “Take a sheet of paper, draw a circle and put the paper on the table.”When a child can complete a simple sequence without an adult having to repeat it several times, they are more prepared to participate in group activities.

3. Basic Social Skills
Your child can play with other children, share materials and wait for their turn.These skills do not need to be perfect. Disagreements, frustration and occasional conflicts are a normal part of childhood.However, a child should be beginning to understand that other children also have needs, feelings and boundaries.

4. The Ability to Concentrate
A four-year-old is not expected to sit still for an hour. Being able to stay focused on a game, story or activity for approximately 10 to 15 minutes is already a positive sign.When a child finds it difficult to remain engaged in any activity for longer than a couple of minutes, it may be useful to practise concentration skills before school starts.

5. Fine Motor Skills
Your child can hold a pencil, use child-safe scissors and build with small construction pieces.Children spend a lot of time drawing, painting, cutting, crafting and modelling in groep 1. Well-developed fine motor skills can help them feel more confident and independent from their first days at school.

6. Speech and Language Development
Your child speaks in sentences and can explain what they want, how they feel or what has happened.This is particularly important in bilingual and multilingual families. Children may mix languages or develop at different speeds in each language. That is not automatically a cause for concern, but it is worth paying attention to their overall ability to communicate.Strong language skills in a child’s home language can also provide a solid foundation for learning Dutch.

7. Emotional Readiness
Your child can cope with being separated from their parent or caregiver.Some tears at drop-off are completely normal. The important question is whether the child can calm down and join the group after a reasonable amount of time.When every separation leads to prolonged distress, it may be helpful to work on this before school starts, possibly with support from an early-years educator or child psychologist.

What to Do When Your Child Is Not Ready in Every Area

First, do not panic. Children develop at different rates, and that is completely normal.

Second, remember that you may still have time. When school is several months away, you can focus on specific skills through everyday activities. Practise getting dressed, play games that require concentration and create more opportunities for your child to interact with other children.

Third, supplementary classes in Russian can help children maintain their home language while also developing the practical, cognitive and social skills they need in a Dutch school environment.For more information about choosing the right programme, read our article: “How to Choose a Supplementary School for Your Child in the Netherlands: 7 Questions to Ask.”